Depraved, one-track minded men of Bangladesh have found themselves in possession of a new weapon to harass young, defenceless girls. It’s small (fits inside their pockets), it’s easy to manoeuvre and it’s always with them. The innocent mobile phone that brings joy to people for its speed in communication and information exchange, keeps parents happy when their children are out of sight and can even be used to buy and sell products as varied as furniture and vegetables, is now being used by a certain section of people to do something more sinister.
Unsuspecting girls are being victimised by this section of people by having their photos taken or videotaped sometimes in compromising positions. One girl (according to a Prothom Alo report) was in a shop buying personal items when a man secretly took a shot of her using her phone camera. At public places there is no rest from the wicked phone-clicking menace to society. Jilted lovers have also found a much more powerful weapon of revenge in the cell phone. So do we blame it all on the cell phones? Of course not! There will always be such people who will find new ways to harass people. But the laws regarding this form of harassment need to be stricter. People need to be more aware of the terrible consequences of such acts that cause so much trauma to the victims and their families. ‘Eve teasing’ has led to an end of many girls education and even suicides from frustration. This new weapon is much more sophisticated and dangerous. If it is not controlled properly, the situation may go out of control. ‘Eve teasing’ is basically sexual harassment and should be seen as a reprehensible crime that must not go unpunished.
September 14th, 2007 at 9:21 am
Hi, thanks for this, do you have any case studies for suicides?
People with bad characters will use any technology to help them fulfil their bodmarshness. In bangladesh i beleive this group is most powerful now. Another group of people beleive that they are not accountable for their internet and telephonic behaviour in the same way as their actual behaviour. I would have hoped that the systems of practical ethics nurtured from the cradle would run into these new technological spaces, but they haven’t yet. Maybe its hard to get funding for it.
Men too get hassled from phones in bangladesh, with random women calling to ‘field’, probe and pester. It would be almost sweet if it weren’t so desperately sad and undignified behaviour. telephone crank calling would seem to be some kind of national pasttime.
When GoB were pondering over the mobile phone licences, one view was that bdeshis would lose their privacy. I wonder what should be done to both benefit from the good and repress the bad uses.
Theres a problem here for vehement liberal aspiring bohemian types who refuse to judge on these matters and would leave it ‘up to the individual’.
A society needs accepted behavioural norms not just law enforcement. Communications have come and are being consumed rapidly and unquestionably at the moment, maybe after some more time the feedback processes will be stronger and more frequent.
September 14th, 2007 at 9:47 am
I am actually working on a bigger story. I’ll give the case studies for suicides there. Prothom Alo on last week’s nari moncho has a very sad case study where a 14-year-old lost her speech and her family stayed inside the house for 4 days straight because of torment inflicted on them by the neighbourhood thugs.
September 14th, 2007 at 3:07 pm
Hana,
Here is the story that SWM did a few years ago.
http://www.drishtipat.org/feature/eveteasing/wall.htm
Anyone knows if there is relevent laws surrounding this in other countries?
September 14th, 2007 at 4:45 pm
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September 15th, 2007 at 5:23 am
Hana
One danger is that technology ends up being blamed for these ills. It’s an easy target, and of course mobile phone companies are everybody’s favorite bad guy (Bangali forgets rather too easily what twilight technology zone we lived in before mobile companies came).
Eve teasing is a basic MALE tendency as old as man, and nor is it limited to third world countries. Listen to any of the horror stories documented by TAKE BACK THE NIGHT in advanced American & European metropolis.
Taslima Nasreen, before she became engulfed in the Islam controversy, did excellent work documenting widespread eve teasing in Gausia, Boi Mela, Varsity campus, etc. This was long before mobile phones.
I think “Tech Aided Sleaze Bags” is a senstaionalist title that sends people in wrong direction. These are the same tendencies that tried to block mobile phones because they would “increase crime” (ridiculous assertion) and on same logic, still there is no network in the 3 districts of CHT (better to keep the Paharis down).
September 15th, 2007 at 7:24 pm
The problem is ‘Eve teasing’ which was made illegal in India, (even before cell-phone cameras), because of nationwide problems of severe psychological, often suicidal effect on girls.
‘Eve teasing’ a S.Asian cultural tendency, where boys tease girls, apparently innocently in playful games or even to extent of STALKING, without realising serious psychological harrassment and privacy consequences.
Maybe Bangladesh should take similar LEGAL STEPS as India to prevent ‘Eve teasing’ as harrassment. Before that, BD needs to fix legal system itself first! before taking on more laws.
Blaming cell phone cameras may not be right, as digital cameras today are equally small and abundant, and can equally hurt privacy.
September 16th, 2007 at 8:50 am
In the early 90s when I was in University in New Delhi eve teasing used to be a big issue. On campus we were very vigilant against anyone indulging in it. And student’s privately “policed” such behavior.
Interestingly this happened in N.Delhi but never in Mumbai. Cultural differences I guess. Though unfortunately these days hidden camera footages are gaining popularity. Recently a court in India banned a TV channel from airing hidden camera footage of a “celebrity” prisoner while in the toilet.
September 16th, 2007 at 9:41 am
Eyshob Dinratri, I don’t think the title indicates at all that I am blaming it on technology. This form of harassment has always been there and will also be here forever. I am just saying that the laws need to be stricter so that these #$%^$%& think twice before doing so. BNWLA and Prothom Alo had a roundtable on the issue on Wednesday. No one is blaming the mobile phones here.
September 16th, 2007 at 7:44 pm
Who should be blame here? just asking?
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Monday, September 17, 2007 01:43 AM GMT+06:00
Published On: 2007-09-16
Front Page
Viqarunnisa College student commits suicide
Staff Correspondent
A student of Viqarunnisa Noon College committed suicide yesterday after an altercation with her younger brother over a trifle matter.
The dead was identified as Soheli Razzaq Shimonti, an HSC student and daughter of Abdur Razzaq, assistant engineer of Wasa.
She committed suicide by hanging at the bathroom of her house at Wasa Colony in city’s Arambagh area.
Shimonti’s family members said she argued with her younger brother Najul Sabbir Parag over playing games on mobile phone at about 12:00 noon. After the row, she went to the bathroom.
After a while, her family members asked her to come out. Getting no response from her, they broke the door and found her hanging with a pipe.
She was rushed to the Dhaka Medical College Hospital (DMCH) where the on-duty doctor declared her dead.
Shimonti got golden GPA 5 in SSC exams in 2006.
September 17th, 2007 at 3:31 am
Well, it’s hard to absorb a piece that starts with
“Depraved, one-track minded men of Bangladesh”
As if sexism, misogyny, is uniquely a BANGLADESHI disease, as opposed to a MALE disease.
There ain’t no salvation on the other side of the ocean. Just ask the rape victims (black) of the Duke Lacrosse team (white) who watched their case demolished by five star lawyers, and the entire team walked free. Oh and the DA who dared bring the case lost his job.
September 17th, 2007 at 10:19 am
Dinratri, I totally agree with you that it is a male disease, absolutely not unique to Bangladesh. But I’m sorry to say, the intensity is quite a few thousand times higher in Bangladesh than anywhere else. Just get an average, modestly-clothed 15yr old to walk down any street in Dhaka. She will be hurled abuses left and right, whistled at, stared at up and down, screamed at by ricksha-pullers, and if there’s a light crowd she will be groped and man-handled from all sides. I work in Karwan bazar. When I leave work at night to look for transportation you think I am spared either? Truck drivers point their laser lights at me, I get shoved and pushed from and made weird comments like ‘ooo nice’ and ‘akselent’. Where else in the world is the abuse so intense? I know how to deal with it because I’m 29 years old. But how does a 15yr old deal with it? Well in my case my parents never let me go out - stay at home, study, watch tv and go to school. Trust me, it’s very depressing to stay at home all day. Many girls in this country are suicidal because of these reasons. I know I was. So “depraved, one-track minded men of Bangladesh” it is. I could add more adjectives to that, but for the sake of sanity I wont. The Duke Lacrosse team case is very unfortunate, but rapes and physical abuses happen even inside our own houses everyday. I know someone who was molested by her own chacha in her own house. She was 11 years old. She never told anyone. There never was a case. And trust me when I say she is not a unique case. Just talk to the garments workers. They are not only overworked and underpaid. Try to find some who have never been physically abused by anyone. I think it’ll be difficult to find.
September 17th, 2007 at 11:55 am
I am sorry that you work and have this experience in kawran bazar, its an area dominated by the media establishment so if they were looking for case studies close to work they could save a lot on transporation costs. do you have different expectations of perviness in different parts of the city and can you map it?
Id really really be chuffed to read an interview with female RAB people/riot police about this kind of stuff.
On the law, unfortunately a lot of law that was meant to protect womens dignity is being abused in BD to take out grudges (using the women as proxy) and demolish reputations.
That’s why fundamentally for me its more about strengthening manners, rewarding decency and raising standards in broadcast media (indian mps themselves rail against bolly) on the male side and toughening up on the other. Also i think greater emphasis on female congregational prayer would do wonders.
September 17th, 2007 at 12:47 pm
“greater emphasis on female congregational prayer”? Please elaborate.
September 17th, 2007 at 3:01 pm
Technology has enabled some to advance their wrongdoing and deviance from accepted behavioural norms. Society shouldnt be fatalistic about it as there are plenty of positive practices to encourage.
I find Bangladeshi women jump towards congregations and higher religious practice. With it there is no pretention, it is regular, non centralised and relationship building. Rude males who fear nothing but a ritual beating would not dare to insult a mass of women, some who might know his mother or his wife, the costs on them are too high.
Therefore there needs to be a change in the local religious institutional infrastructures (give it a few decades, its already started where it can be afforded)
Womens only physical activity like sports and scouting could also play a good role in wisening up and toughening up.
Clearly the religious practice route wont be to everybodys taste and a many forces would prefer them to spend time cooking indoors or at beauty parlours or shopping or moaning. I guess it just depends on what you think ‘developing’ your city actually means.
hence the ‘greater emphasis on’. clear as mud?